Why I love my city

MoneySense recently named Calgary as the “Best Place to Live in Canada” based on income, employment, housing, weather, crime rates, and medical access. This prompted me to write my own piece on why I love my city.

My parents immigrated from Vietnam to Hong Kong to Calgary when I was two years old, and we’ve lived here ever since. I lived in Lethbridge for four years while attending university, and I also lived in Edmonton and Gold Coast for a brief time. However, no matter where I lived or where I travelled, Calgary has always been home, but it didn’t really feel like home until I moved back almost three years ago. Upon moving back, I moved in with sister, settled into a new job, and re-established my lifestyle (read more about the transition here). You could say my decision to live in Calgary happened by default (I grew up here, and my parents live here), but over the past few years, I’ve grown to really love my city, and I couldn’t be happier with the decision to continue living here.

Calgary is a very young and transient city. Especially in the past few years, we’ve seen tons of people from across the country flooding here for work. Unemployment rate is below the national average (currently at 4.02%), and there are still a lot of job opportunities for young people. I’ve been very fortunate to find work in my field and to be doing something I love. Times are tough for new grads who are trying to find work in their related fields, or just work period, but I would also argue that it’s not that bad. In any case, it’s comforting to be living in a city with good job prospects and career opportunities.

As for climate, Calgary gets all four seasons, which is something you love, hate, or have to deal with. Those who hate it tend to complain about it all the time, whereas I’m in-between dealing with it and loving it. Some days, I absolutely love the snow (especially when it looks like this), but there are days when it makes driving conditions dangerous and when it’s just so freakin’ cold. I’m talking -30 Celsius cold. According to some sources, Calgary is the sunniest place in Canada. I’ll take that over rainy, gloomy, overcast weather any day. However, Calgary is also a very dry and windy city, and we get some severe hail storms in the spring and summer. All things considered, the weather here isn’t so bad.

Another plus of living in Calgary is being close to the mountains; perfect for those who enjoy winter sports like skiing and snowboarding. I’ve never been much into that, but I love the mountains for summer hikes and weekend camping trips. As for the city itself, the Bow River area provides a lot of trails for runners and bikers, and it’s great for those who like water sports such as rafting, canoeing, and kayaking. There’s also a lot of great parks like Prince’s Island Park, Fish Creek Park, and Pearce Estate Park for summer activities, picnics, and barbecues. I don’t think Calgary is the most bike-friendly place, however this aspect seems to be changing (read here). In addition, Calgarians are starting to care more about “walkability,” which I think is excellent in a city hit hard by urban sprawl.

For a big city, Calgary has a strong sense of community. As someone who works in the nonprofit sector, I have to say, Calgarians are quite charitable. That altruism may be merely for tax benefits, but I like to believe it’s also coming from a good place. There’s a strong sense of voluntarism, both on a cooperate and personal level. Furthermore, there are a lot of great nonprofit organizations working together to target social problems, such as homelessness, poverty, addictions and mental health, and domestic violence. There are tons of programs providing support for children, youth, and families. I believe Calgary is doing really good work to help improve lives and build stronger communities.

Some might say that Calgary is lacking in art and culture, but I would have to disagree. I think the city provides ample opportunities for people to engage in the arts; just not enough people know about it or care for it. I think venues like the Epcor Centre of Performing Arts and the Southern Alberta Jubilee Auditorium are always putting on great music, dance, and theatre shows. In particular, I’m really impressed with the work of Theatre Calgary. The city has plenty to offer in terms of art. You just need to know where to go.

Last but certainty not least, the food scene here is A-MAZING. Admittedly, food in Calgary is expensive compared to other major cities, but if you’re willing you pay the price, it’s totally worth it. New restaurants are popping up all the time, thus making it hard to visit the same restaurant more than once. This is not an entirely bad thing if you like checking out new places. I’m all about great tasting food, and I have to say the food I’ve eaten at the many restaurants here in Calgary is truly exceptional. Everything from savory brunch food to gourmet thin-crust pizza to the best steak of my life. The only thing we don’t have is good pho, but Basil Ultimate Pho will do. Read more about Calgary’s food scene here.

I don’t want to fail to recognize that there are a lot of not-so-good things about Calgary, for example, traffic, urban sprawl, and transit. Every major city has its disadvantages, whether it’s high taxes or unaffordable housing. What’s most important is whether the city works for you and your lifestyle. Honestly, I wouldn’t say I have huge Calgary pride (I don’t even cheer for the Flames), but I think it’s important to at least like where you live. So often, people move to new cities for work, for school, for someone, and they absolutely hate it. That’s no way to live. Instead, take time to learn about your city, and embrace what it has to offer.

In conclusion, I have to say Calgary is pretty great. It’s grown a lot in the past few years, especially in size, and it’ll be interesting to see what it will be in five, ten, years. There’s so much to explore and experience here that no one can say it’s a boring city. Only boring people are bored. Right now is a good time to be in Calgary, to be working, to buy a house, to eat good food, and to create a life that works for you.

Thanks for reading, folks.

C.

Sources: moneysense.ca, raptitude.com, thewalrus.ca, theglobeandmail.com, bikecalgary.org, calgaryherald.com, calgaryunitedway.org, and avenuecalgary.com

My grown up Christmas



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While everyone is busy finding last minute Christmas gifts, I’m making it a point to stay home and avoid all the shopping malls. This year, I decided not to buy any Christmas gifts, except for my Fiancé. I spent a little under $20 on him this year. It’s a small and sentimental gift, but I know he’s going to love it so hard.

To be honest, I’m just not in a financial position to be buying gifts this year. I know Christmas is a time for giving, but I think it’s important to be smart about giving as well. We didn’t always get gifts while growing up because my parents were more concerned about paying the mortgage and putting food on the table. Now that I’m all grown up and financially responsible for myself, I have to make good decisions about how I spend my money and this year, I made the conscious decision not to buy gifts because I can’t afford it right now. Between paying rent and bills, planning a wedding and unexpected expenses, money is tight and sacrifices like these have to be made.

It’s amazing how much people spend this time of year just to make Christmas special, only to start off the New Year in financial debt. It’s not worth it. There’s more to Christmas than giving and receiving, and if you’re giving gifts you can’t afford, what value does it have? Admittedly, I’ll probably be buying Christmas gifts again next year (because I love giving) but part of growing up is learning how to be smart with money and making responsible decisions, which is my Christmas experience this year.

In lighter news, Fiancé wrote his LAST FINAL EXAM of his undergrad degree yesterday. It’s been a long time coming, but we’re both SO HAPPY he’s finally DONE school. It wasn’t always easy, especially when times were stressful and pressure was on, but I’m so proud that we stuck it out together and it was an honour to support my man through his university career. I feel so fortunate to be with someone who is there for me through the ups and downs of life, but it’s even more rewarding to be THAT PERSON in his life and be a support to him in his goals and aspirations. I’m so proud of you, baby.

C.

Iron Ring




“It is rough as the mind of the young man. It is not smoothed off at the edges, any more than the character of the young. It is hand-hammered all around and the young have their hammerings coming to them. It has neither beginning nor end, any more than the work of an Engineer, or as we know Space itself. It will cut into a gold ring if worn next to it: thus showing that one had better keep one’s money getting quite separate.” – Rudyard Kipling

I had the pleasure and honour of attending my Finacé’s Iron Ring Ceremony on Saturday afternoon, along with my soon-to-be brother-in-law, Josh Le. It is a solemn occasion for young engineers at the outset of their career to be obligated through the Ritual of the Calling of an Engineer. It’s not simply a ceremony one goes through to obtain a piece of jewelry. The iron ring, worn on the little finger of the working hand, is a reminder to oneself and a sign to others of the serious obligation to adhere to the highest standards of professional conduct.

Words cannot describe how proud I am of my baby. After 4 and a half years of studies and 3 co-op terms, my Fiancé is one step closer to becoming a professional engineer. He is currently in the home-stretch of his final semester of his undergrad degree, and he’ll be convocating in the Spring of 2012. It goes without saying that he is incredibly smart and hardworking. He is passionate about his work, he doesn’t cut corners, and he is a man of great integrity and strong morals.

We give very little thought to how the world around us is built, while demanding better roads and bigger homes. When our electricity is out, we expect the City to do something about it right away. We can hardly imagine life without gas and MacBooks. What we fail to acknowledge is the hard work of men and women, like my Fiancé, who design and build such things in life that allows us to enjoy our comfortable lifestyle, like producing oil and gas so we can drive to work in our fancy cars or keeping electricity going 24/7 so we can charge our iPhones while we sleep. More than that, the work that engineers do is life sustaining, and that to me is crucial and admirable.

C.

Some hearts just get lucky sometimes

“Life has so much to offer, and it doesn’t have to start or end at a particular age. Slow down. Enjoy each moment as they pass, whether exciting or dull. Live to be yourself and not who someone else wants you to be. Never be held back by fear. Have some plans but don’t fix your life trying to live by them. Be less skeptical. Be honest with yourself. Love. Let people in. And know that life gets better as you get older. As least this is true for me.” – yours truly, September 2009

Birthdays are a good time to reflect on where you’ve been, how far you’ve come, and reevaluate where you wanna go. 21 was an amazing year. Beginning with my time in Australia. First time traveling on my own. First time in the Southern Hemisphere. First time on a helicopter. First time scuba diving. It was an incredible time in my life, and the experience of traveling to some of the most exotic and beautiful places in the world was unbelievable. As planned, I finished university within 4 years and graduated with my undergrad degree at the age of 21, which is my biggest accomplishment in life thus far. I also traveled to Boston and New York in May with my sister, two major cities on my bucket list crossed off. I’ve always dreamed of traveling to New York post-graduation, and with the love and support of my parents and sister, my dream came true. It was definitely one of the most memorable times of 21. And with great timing and luck, I landed an amazing career job only months after graduating.

So here I am at 22 with a degree and a career job. I have an amazing man in my life, a wonderful family, and awesome friends. I also have my health, food to eat, clothes to wear, and a car to drive. What more could I possibly ask for at this age? I am incredibly blessed to have experienced such an amazing year, and I believe my future ahead is still very bright. Looking back, it’s hard to remember where I started but it’s clear how far I’ve come in only a year. Now at 22, I simply feel blessed. I feel like I’m at a place in my life where I feel settled and I can finally enjoy life. I’ve been on the go-go-go for the past 4 years, and although I hate feeling comfortable, I think this stability is exactly what I need in my life right now. I’ve entered what they call the “real world,” and whether it’s exciting or dull, I’m learning to live in the moment and enjoy life as it unfolds. Not a lot of 22 year olds can relate to where I am in life, but that’s okay because I’m on my own journey, doing my own thing. As long as I’m happy with where I am in life, I think that’s what courts.

But above all, without Jesus Christ, I would not be where I am. Everything I am and everything I have, I owe to Him. My provider, comforter, friend, giver of life, strength, hope, and peace. Jesus is everything to me, and although I am so undeserving in so many ways, He continues to pour into me and bless me with more than I could even ask for. I am beyond grateful and extremely blessed.

So where do I wanna go from here and what are my goals for the future? For now, I wanna enjoy where I am, at least for the next couple years. I’ll eventually go back to school to pursue my Masters, and perhaps later on in life, my Ph.D. as well. I want to continue to work hard and move forward in my relationship with my boyfriend. He’s my world, my happiness, and my future. Wherever I go and whatever I do, I want him beside me to hold my hand and to see me through. I also want to strengthen my relationship with my family; give them more of me, my time and my love. Friendships are so important to me so regardless of where I am and where my friends are, I want to keep those ties and bonds strong because you can always count on friends to be there; and if you can’t, you need new friends. Travel to a new city. See more shows: musical, art, concerts, and theatre. Start a photography business. Save money. Be responsible. Work hard. Give more. Drink less coffee. Re-watch old movies. Be respectful of others. Never stop learning. Cry. Laugh. Have fun. And enjoy life!

Here’s to 22!



















Memories of 21: 1. Gold Coast, Australia. Taken in a helicopter. | 2. Goldbridge. | 3. Parasailing. | 4. I’m like a bird, Surfers Paradise. | 5. Currumbin Wildlife Sanctuary. | 6. Lake McKenzie, Fraser Island. | 7. White Haven Beach, Whitsundays Islands. | 8. My baby. | 9. All We Ever Do Is Say Goodbye photo shoot. | 10. Home for Christmas. | 11. I’m dressed all in blue. | 12. The winter season. | 13. Chinese New Years, CVAC. | 14-15. EVACEM Annual Winter Camp. | 16. ECE Grad Banquet with baby. | 17. John Mayer concert. | 18. Convocation. | 19. Boston Red Sox game. | 20-21. Extended family. | 22. Rockefeller Center, NYC. | 24. Bryant Park, NYC. | 25. Dinner with Lily and Alyssa. | 26. Always be my baby.


The smell of you in every single dream





Gripp jeans; Sportsgirl top; H&M necklace; Joe Fresh sunglasses; Gucci belt bag; BCBG pumps

I have a tendency to get ahead of myself. For some reason, I have a hard time focusing on the present moment and enjoying life as it happens. I always have to think ahead, plan out my future, and have answers to everything. But that’s just me. I’m not always proud of how hasty I am but I have to admit, it’s gotten me places in life.

Last week, I had a talk with my supervisor about future career goals and aspirations. Out of our conversation, my supervisor suggested I pursue grad school and get my Ph.D. I always planned on getting my Masters but haven’t put much thought or even considered a Doctorate degree. I was touched and humbled that someone else believed that I could achieve that level of education. I don’t think I’m the smartest cookie in the jar but I am an academic and I thrive on expanding my mind with more knowledge.

So of course I started mapping out my future. When I was 20, I thought I was gonna be single until I was 30 so that I would have my entire twenties to go to school and travel but life had other plans. I’m really happy with where I am in life right now and if I had to choose, I don’t think I would have it any other way. Education is important but so is work and life experience. I know I need to slow down and take time to enjoy where I am in life before I find myself under textbooks again.

I’m learning to celebrate the fact that I’m a new grad who just started my career with a great agency and a wonderful position. I know I have a bright future ahead of me and whatever I decide to do, I’ll know when the time comes. But who knows. Maybe I’ll change my mind, never go back to school, and just live happily ever after doing what I’m doing now. Very unlikely but it’s hard to tell, or in my case, plan the future because it often never goes according to plan.

Your over-achiever,
C.